For many women, pregnancy is a time when they have to choose between the motherly duties of taking care of their babies and the responsibilities of living their lives. While it’s tempting to throw both on the same list, there are three levels of self-awareness to consider: (1) the actual pregnancy; (2) the baby; and (3) the motherhood.
We’re looking at the third level of self-awareness. The motherhood is not about making baby number three, but about making the decisions that are best for you, your own happiness, and your own life.
No, you have to make the choice about whether you want to be a mother, or whether you want to be a parent and do something with your life. For a lot of people the answer is “I don’t want to be a parent,” because it makes everything harder. You can’t do work, you can’t do school, you can’t travel, you can’t even go to a party without bringing some guy home.
But for me, I want to be a parent, and I want to have a family. I want to love my daughter and have a baby. So I am not going to make a kid just to have a kid.
Of course, there are many reasons why you might not want to be a parent, but the basic one is that you would be depriving your daughter of something she needs. There are also some reasons that you might want to be a parent that are more selfish, but they’re still good reasons to consider. For example, if you had a big family you might want to be a parent to all of your kids because that would be a good deal for everyone.
I used to think that I would never want to be a parent, but my family now has six kids, and it is hard to imagine I would not want some of them to have a baby. I am not sure that I would want to have all six kids at once, but I would definitely want to have a baby.
Some parents have had their babies out of wedlock. Others have had their kids get their first communion or baptism in the same church. Still others have been married and have had their kids baptized in the same church. The fact is, there are a lot of reasons to want to be a parent, and it is possible to be a selfish one.
It’s easy to say that you want to be a parent because you want to have kids. It’s much harder to do it because you want to have kids because you want to have a family. In a way, I guess you could say that a lot of people with the desire to have kids are selfish. But there are a lot of selfish people out there too.
In the case of a couple, it’s not all that different. There is no reason to think that all of the other people in their lives will be like them. When you make a decision that you really think is right, it may be that you and your spouse will be able to live together happily ever after. However, that’s not the case for everyone. Like a lot of couples, the person who wants to have kids has a lot of reasons to want to be a parent.
Before you think that it’s going to be easy, it’s not. But by no means am I suggesting that you can’t have kids. I know that there are plenty of people who are seriously considering kids right now, and it’s not an easy decision to make. But it’s not impossible either.
